Eid is about sharing & caring

The day of Eid-ul-Fitr truly symbolises piety, patience, fortitude and godliness.

Socially, Eid-ul-Fitr reminds us of the noble human feeling to share the festivities with the poor, the underprivileged, the downtrodden, orphans, neglected and the cast off besides embracing people from all walks of life.

The congregational prayers and expressions of brotherhood, coupled with the distribution of poor dues that is Fitra marking the celebration of Eid-ul-Fitr, should not be seen merely as rituals but need to be understood and appreciated with reference to their wider significance, especially at this juncture.

It has never said that a non-follower of Islam be not helped or sympathised for the simple reason as: Allah is not the God of Muslims alone but He is Rehmatullil Aalameen, meaning that He is the God of all people irrespective of their faith, caste, colour or creed.

Islam considers all the creatures of God as one family of whom man is dearest to Him. As in the Vedic religion, ‘Nar seva, Narayan seva’ (Service to man is noblest), so it is in Islam.

This day of happiness is also a day of introspection for Muslims who should spare at least some time to see if their actions and character can be assessed favourably in the light of Islamic teachings as to whether they have contributed to the well-being of their fellow beings, non-Muslim brethren and the nation above all. 

Muslims must see to it that on Eid, though a day of happiness, there is no squandering of wealth and care is taken that the downtrodden too are taken care of. Gratitude and service to humanity are the fundamental values that Islam inculcates in every person.

That is why service to humanity is the grain of a Muslim.
The Eid-ul-Fitr is celebrated, in brief, to express gratitude to god and the nation for enabling the faithful to observe fasts for a month in the manner of a ‘refresher course’ punctuated with strict self-discipline and the night tarawih prayers.

Eid truly means not to celebrate merely for one’s self but sharing the joys as the following incident from the life of Prophet Mohammed (peace be upon him) illustrates in the Hadith Ibn-e-Ma’aja.

On the day of Eid in the streets of Madina, Prophet Mohammed saw a small child weeping and his eyes welled up with tears.

On being enquired, the child replied that he was an orphan and had no money, friends or relatives to celebrate Eid. The Prophet brought him home and asked his wife Ayesha to bathe the child such that he becomes neat and tidy and be clothed in the manner best possible.

The Prophet said, “Child, from this day onwards, Mohammed is your father, Ayesha is your mother, Fatima is your sister and Hasnain your brother.”

The child became so ecstatic that the very next moment, he ran in the streets of Madina singing, “Is there any child whose father is like Mohammed or mother like Ayesh? Is there any child whose sister is like Fatima and brother like Hasnain?

Merely celebrating Eid unmindful of what’s happening in the neighbour’s house as to whether he is happy or not, is not the true spirit of Eid.

It’s not merely a time of meeting, feasting and making merry. It was a principal with Prophet Mohammed (pbuh) that first of all he used to make sure whether all the needy, widows and the backward were able to share the joys of Eid.

The Prophet (pbuh) even had a great reverence for the women. Earlier the women used to attend the Eid congregation to whom the prophet used to speak in a Khutba (address) after the prayer.

Now the women don’t go for prayers. Hazrat Mohammed’s (pbuh) regard for women is depicted in the incident when some girls who were singing songs on the day of Eid, were scolded by Hazrat Abu Bakar Siddique and the Prophet (pbuh) believed that Islam is a natural religion which never curtails pertinent human desires.

Today, in India, along with Holi, Eid has become an occasion of interfaith harmony as well as a day to mellow away the enmity and feelings of heart burning.