Hi,I’m a senior citizen living in Ahmedabad. I think I may be gay. When I was in boarding school, we were ragged sometimes and asked to perform certain acts on our seniors. Frankly, I enjoyed it. I ragged the juniors in the same way. I got married at 25 and have three children. The sex petered out after a few years. I never enjoyed it as much with my wife.

My wife is dead and my children stay abroad. Is it too late to discover my sexuality? How can I meet someone interested in me? Do you think I should go find gigolos?— Mr Is It Too Late?

Hi Mr Is It Too Late,You’re never too old to have an active sex life. Maybe after putting on a charade all these years, you will finally enjoy sex with a man. I encourage you to explore your sexuality. There are so many seenagers (senior teenagers) who are navigating the tricky water of sexual experiences. If you’d like to meet other seenagers, there is a support group that connects over chai once a month in Mumbai. The Humsafar Trust could connect you to seenagers in your city.

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If you’re looking for hired help to get you back in the sex game, I’d say go for it. A date with a young, virile man could do wonders for your confidence.

(Rainbow Guru is your guide, counsellor and agony aunt through the waters of sexuality)

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