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Is there something in your relationship that is bothering you, but you can’t figure out how to broach the topic?
Is there something in your relationship that is bothering you, but you can’t figure out how to broach the topic? Clinical psychologist Seema Hingorrany, tells you how to talk about those muted issues with your partner.
Recently my girlfriend has started to behave very differently. She hardly talks to me and has cut down on socialising drastically. On asking, she said she is upset because of her dismal performance at work because of which her boss is unhappy. This has resulted in her undermining herself. I’m afraid that she may slip into depression or take some drastic step. How do I get her out of this state?
I think your girlfriend is indeed showing symptoms of depression and I would advise that she seeks counselling to come out of her situation. It is likely that she might not be open to the idea of seeking psychological assistance, but you need to persuade her to do so. She may act rude or snap at you, but it’s important not to let your ego step in. The key is to have a heart-to-heart chat with your girlfriend and convince her to visit a psychologist.
I am a 32-year-old home maker with a 4-year-old son. I gave up my job after delivery and I admit that it was a bad decision, especially since I see little contribution from my husband towards raising our son. He spends 12 hours at work, often doing overtime. Though I know he is doing it for our family, I expect his help when our son is sick or he has a school functions, etc. How do I help myself out of this situation?
This is a very common phenomenon where men get absorbed in work and women take a backseat. However, I would say that providing motherly support to your son is not bad. I’d also suggest that you rope in your husband without explicitly stating it. Do things like booking three tickets for a movie, plan a picnic or family dinner. Slowly you could tell your husband how his company is adding value to all of your lives, and I am sure he will see the point.
I am 24 years old and my boyfriend is two years younger. We are from different communities. Though we love each other, we are not too sure about the future of our relationship. Meanwhile, my father has started getting marriage proposals for me and I am afraid if I tell my him about my boyfriend, he will freak out. This has begun to create friction between my boyfriend and me. What should I do?
This looks like a serious issue. It is vital that you decide whether you want to continue with this relationship and check if both of you are indeed compatible. A good idea would be to get your boyfriend home and let him meet your father. Then take your father’s view on him as a friend. Slowly you could break in the news that you are into a romantic relationship. Of course, he will freak out, but if both of you are sure about the relationship, then perhaps he may just come around.
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