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The trend is still being spoken about
Updated : Feb 12, 2018, 04:01 PM IST
The #MeToo movement that originated after movie tycoon Harvey Weinstein sexually harassed a number of aspiring and famous actresses, became a global phenomenon.
Women – cutting across national borders – shared stories of how they were assaulted by both family members and strangers, creating global outrage.
More recently, several Muslim women came out to share their sexual harassment stories while visiting Mecca, the holy centre for Islam.
The first post was shared by a woman on Facebook, which has subsequently been deleted.
This is what it said.
"*I was afraid to share this because it might hurt your religious sentiments*.
While performing my tawaaf around the Kaaba after isha prayer, something really weird happened. It was my 3rd tawaf, and I felt a hand on my waist. I thought it was just an innocent mistake. I completely ignored. Then… I felt it again. It made me feel very uncomfortable. I kept moving. During my 6th tawaf I suddenly felt something aggressively poking my butt, I froze, unsure of whether it was intentional. I ignored and just kept moving slowly because the crowd was huge. I even tried to turn around but woefully couldn’t. When I reached the Yemeni corner, someone tried to grab and pinch my butt. I decided to stop there. Grabbed his hand and threw it off me *couldn’t move or turn around* I was literally petrified. Couldn’t even escape, so I stood, and turned around as much as I could, to see what’s happening, I turned around but… couldn’t see who it was.
I felt so violated. I felt unable to speak out. Stayed quiet because I knew no one would trust me, or nobody would take it seriously, except my mum. So I told her everything when I returned to the hotel room. She was incredibly confused and devastated. After this incident, she never allowed me to go there again alone.
It’s sad to say that you are not even safe at holy places. I’ve been harassed, not once, not twice, but thrice. My entire experience at the holy city is overshadowed by this horrible incident.
I believe it’s totally okay and important to be open about harassment.
Don’t know how many of you had a similar experience there but this incident has unfortunately left me feeling upset.”
Since the post several women have come out and #MoqueMeToo has become one of the biggest trends on social media.
the #MosqueMeToo shows once again that sexual harassment and assault has nothing to do with female modesty. It is not because of what a woman is wearing it is because of how men are taught to look at and think of women.
— Faranak Amidi (@Faranak_amidi) February 8, 2018
I read about #MosqueMeToo. It brought me to horrible memories during Hajj 2010. People think Mecca is the holiest place for Moslems so nobody would not do something bad. Totally wrong.
— Anggi Lagorio (@AnggiAngguni) February 6, 2018
I stand with my sisters who've experienced sexual assault in environments they thought would be safe. Terrible people can inhabit holy spaces. It is telling of their own character. As Muslims it is our duty to advocate for our sisters who are facing injustice. #MosqueMeToo
— Hanan (@Onecoldcreative) February 7, 2018
But the longest thread was shared by Mona Eltahawy, a columnist with The New York Times, who had shared her experience in her book that was published in 2015.
I am glad to see women are speaking out about being sexually harassed during Hajj. Several years ago, i shared my own experience with sexual assault during the pilgrimage (see following tweets) https://t.co/7A5CeJngEy h/t @jwildeboer #MeToo
— Mona Eltahawy (@monaeltahawy) February 5, 2018
In my book, Headscarves and Hymens: Why the Middle East Needs a Sexual Revolution, I describe being groped and sexually assaulted twice at Haj in 1982 when I was 15 #MeToo pic.twitter.com/n7rEgo1rCC
— Mona Eltahawy (@monaeltahawy) February 5, 2018
In my book, Headscarves and Hymens: Why the Middle East Needs a Sexual Revolution, I describe being groped and sexually assaulted twice at Haj in 1982 when I was 15 #MeToo pic.twitter.com/n7rEgo1rCC
— Mona Eltahawy (@monaeltahawy) February 5, 2018
1st time I shared my experience of being sexually assaulted during Haj, Egyptian Muslim woman warned me to stop or else I’d “make Muslims look bad.”I continue to share what happened to me & several other Muslim women have shared their own experiences w/me. https://t.co/1HxrOhRscZ
— Mona Eltahawy (@monaeltahawy) February 5, 2018
It’s imperative to emphasize that I was sexually assaulted during Haj by ordinary man/fellow pilgrim AND also a #Saudi police officer. There is no safety in sacred spaces, from a fellow pilgrim ostensibly there for sacred ritual, from those ostensibly upholding the “law.”
— Mona Eltahawy (@monaeltahawy) February 5, 2018
And also: I was in hijab. The way you dress HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH SEXUAL ASSAULT! I wore hijab for 9 years and I lost count of how many times I was sexually assaulted while dressed that way. Men are responsible for sexual assault, not wardrobe.
— Mona Eltahawy (@monaeltahawy) February 5, 2018