"I have her dad in my prayers, her in my prayers, and I don't need to prove anything to silly people like you," Gauahar said.
Actress Hina Khan's father passed away on Tuesday after suffering from cardiac arrest. The actor was in Kashmir when her father breathed his last. Hina immediately rushed to Mumbai as soon as she got the unfortunate news.
Soon after the news broke, several celebrities from the television fraternity took to social media to post condolence messages, however, actress Gauahar Khan, who is a close friend of Hina's did not take to social media to post any such message.
During a recent Instagram live session that Gauahar conducted, an internet user tried to troll her saying she did not even write RIP for Hina's father. The message irked Gauahar who blasted at the netizen for being so 'shameful'.
An angry Gauahar gave a befitting reply to the troll and said, "Because I am not a fake person to put it out only on social media. What I had to do, I did it. My connection with Hina is from my heart and I don't need to prove my connection to really silly people like you. So, please keep your negativity to yourself and don't bring it here. I am an individual and I take my decisions on a personal level. What I feel and how I feel, I react accordingly, and I will always do that, and I have her dad in my prayers, her in my prayers, and I don't need to prove anything to silly people like you, who only live your lives on social media and think just by putting condolence on social media, you are feeling something, that's not true. When you feel, you feel. And, when you feel, you reach out to the person. You don't have to prove it to the 'janta' (public), understand.. This just makes me so angry. "
For the unversed, on the night when Hina's dad passed away, Gauahar along with her husband Zaid Darbar had rushed to Kokilaben hospital.
While replying to the troll, Gauahar also vented out for the time she was called out for posting videos and pictures on Instagram after her dad had passed away a month-and-a-half ago.
Gauahar said, "People are so sick, let me just address this. I lost my dad a month and a half ago and people were so quick to judge. 'Oh, you are already posting stuff. You are already putting pictures and dance videos.' Do you people even know what it takes to get over a loss? Do you know that a person doesn't need to sit like this and wonder 'Oh my God, I am losing somebody.' You can't do that. In Islam, you can't grieve for more than three days. You can't cry and be in sadness for more than three days. You have to move on, you have to live your life, you have to carry on with the love of the person that you've lost. So, don't you dare and keep your judgements to yourself and let people be, the way they want to heal, the way they want to come out of things, the way they want to function, stop judging people."
She continued, "I've heard enough of this nonsense, where people just want answers and people think you are answerable to them. Nobody is answerable to you trolls, wanting to comment on people's pages. Mind your own business and let people be and let people heal. I am 100 percent sure that people will go out there and say, 'abhi toh hua hai.' 'Sharam karo yaar' somebody has lost someone and only we know, the people who lose people know how to deal with it, and everyone's healing process is different. And you are nobody to judge someone's life. 'Kya pehna hai, kya khaya hai, kya soya hai' yehi karne aate ho social media par? Live and let live. 'Besharam'. I just wanted to be happy today and this is what happens."
On being trolled for posting pictures online after her father's demise, a infuriated yet emotional Gauahar said during her live session, "I've been ignoring these trolls for so long. Every picture that I posted after my dad passed away, there were comments saying, 'Oh, aapke dad ko 40 din bhi nahin hue hain.' I was like 'sharam nahin aati tumko' (cries). You are reminding me 20,000 times of how I lost my father (cries) You don't need to remind me losers, I already know that. Everyday I ignore that and now when someone else, unfortunately, has lost her dad, and they expect me to put a rest in peace on social media. Excuse me, I don't need to do that to let someone know that I am there for them. I am there for her and she (Hina) knows that, I am sure. How dare you judge that?"
"I realise that let people judge, let people think what they want because whether you like it or not, they are going to think what they want, they are going to judge. I have realised in these two months that people are judged for every little thing, we shouldn't do that. We don't know who's going through what. I request you please don't judge people because you don't know what's happening in their lives. You could have an opinion and just keep it to yourself. But don't go out there trolling and talking sh*t about people and assuming 'how could you?' I feel like giving a tight slap to all these judgemental people," Gauahar said during her Instagram live.
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