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I loved the film Million Dollar Baby. Deeply moving. Unforgettable.

And though it was rich with so many life lessons, there’s one in particular that I still think about: “Protect yourself.”

I believe I’m a world-class optimist. I try to stay incredibly positive. I’m committed to seeing the best in every situation, and the good in every person I meet. I really do expect the best from life. But I also prepare for the worst. That just makes sense to me. Life’s not a fairy tale. I must say that expecting the best but preparing for the worst is not an easy balancing act.

But I think it’s an important one for us to work on and get right as we reach for our own unique forms of personal greatness.

So be splendidly loving and kind to people. Definitely.

Give of yourself and help all those around you as much as you can. Undoubtedly. Be one of those special people who leaves people better than you found them. But I also suggest that you not become a martyr. The thing about martyrs is that most of them get burned at the stake. Balance being kind and considerate to others with being kind and considerate to yourself.

Balance giving away your energy inspiring others with replenishing your energy so you remain inspired yourself. Strike that delicate balance between loving others and loving yourself.

Set boundaries. Know your limits. Don’t go to extremes.Protect yourself.
— Robin Sharma is the author of The Greatness Guide