My parents are looking for an alliance for me. I have been rejected by six men so far. I feel very depressed and have lost much of my confidence. What should I do?
It’s really sad, that with all the developments, we still tend to blame a girl for rejection of a marriage proposal. Remember you are perfect in your own way. If someone agrees or disagrees to marry you it is because they have different wants and desires. Don’t try and imitate anyone.
Those guys are not rejecting you, but they are rejecting an idea they have in their mind. Within one meeting or looking at your photo, they can never know who you are. Let your Prince Charming come. Patience is a bitter tree but it’s fruits are very sweet.
I had an extra-marital affair through Facebook. Now it is over but I cannot forgive myself. I have a loving husband and kids, I cannot understand how could I have been so stupid?
A bored routine in life and secret adventurism associated with an extra-marital affair make it very attractive to the mind. It’s effect on the mind is just like that of an highly addictive drug. The instant happiness makes you do things without analysis. It’s important to learn from your experience.
What has been done can’t be undone. Now that you have realised where your loyalty lies, it’s important to focus on it.