Rainbow Guru: Talk before you kiss

Is homosexuality normal? How do homosexual people have sex? I have had a strong urge to kiss one of my friends who is a boy, but he comes across as straight. I also like girls. What should I do in this case? Please tell me ASAP. I can't control my emotions and don't want to break up my friendship with him.

Yes, homosexuality is as normal as heterosexuality, if that is your measure of normalcy. Coming to how homosexual people have sex, well, just like anybody else does. I'm sorry I can't show you, I am a virgin!

Now let's talk about your urge to kiss your male friend. Before kissing him, you need to know if he is okay with the idea and whether he has the same urge as you. If you just take the plunge and kiss him, ignoring his orientation, you might irk him out and he might not be comfortable around you in the future. It's best to talk about it and find out whether he is open to the idea. If he isn't, you need to shift your gaze and look away. There are plenty of fish in the sea.

If you like girls and boys both, it's not the end of the world. It's absolutely okay to like people of both sexes. This doesn't mean you should be with a girl/boy and also be romantically inclined with other boys/girls. Whether you cheat on a girl or a boy with a girl or a boy, infidelity is infidelity and THAT is not cool.

I have tried answering your question ASAP and I hope you were able to control your motions and emotions and whatever else that was being a bother. Just speak to your male friend before kissing him abruptly and in the middle of nowhere because whether or not your friendship breaks, there might be other parts of your anatomy that might need to be fixed. Kissing ANYBODY without their consent is just wrong.