In relationships there are difficult situations, and there are deal-breakers. Some traits are a signal to quickly sprint away from a lady. It’s hard to offer advice on how to pinpoint these types of women, but good indicators are how she behaves and how persistent her friends are when you are around. Trust your instincts, and take actions if there’s any doubt. We put together a list of dangerous women that you could meet along the way.
Gold digger: Taking her out for dinners, surprising her with gifts and getting her flowers is normal according to romantic standards, but do make sure she is enjoying your company and not just your wallet. If she is expecting you to pay for everything including her salon bills, that should be enough to raise a red flag. Also, if she consistently chooses the most expensive dishes on the menu, there is a word of caution for you. Seema Hingorrany, clinicla psychologist and author says, “The gold digger is one to be kept at bay. Such a girl is looking for opportunity all the time — it need not be in terms of money alone, but also contacts and fame. Men like women who are independent which brings stability to a relationship.”
Brand Conscious: A woman who dreams, wears and swears by brands is like a fashion magazine. Watch yourself around her, especially if she’s checking your shirt collar to know how branded you are. If brands are not for you, it’s time to distance yourself and avoid dating her.
Gossip Queen: Before you know it, your salary, lifestyle, bank account details will be out in the public domain. Such a girl will talk about you and your family to everyone.
Ms Right: It is rare to have a girlfriend who has political knowledge, social manners, great conversation skills and the grace to ‘agree to disagree’. Dating a girl who is unable to accept a different opinion is not a healthy idea. Most Ms Rights are also terribly stubborn. Unfortunately the Ms Right types are hard to change, as their personal pride is on their nose and tends to get in the way of understanding those around her. All you can really do is avoid these women. Jeet Shah, jewellery designer says, “I like women who are independent and have a mind of their own. I also feel the concepts of Ms Right and Mr Right are delusional, no one is 100 per cent perfect.”
Rebound Chick: Yes, maybe you have heard this, but these type of women are the most dangerous to be with. Yet, so many of us mistakenly fall for a woman without having a clue about her past relationships.