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Honeymoon tips for first timers

Ten tips to enhance your honeymoon plans.

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You are all set for your marriage and as the date comes closer you are filled with wonderful nervousness. But one aspect that you are probably thinking about is your honeymoon and how it’ll be. In a society where arranged marriages are common, it is quite possible that you have not been physically intimate with your partner before your wedding night.

So thinking about all the expectations your honeymoon holds can be nerve racking. Here are some handy tips when you go on that all essential trip.

1) Get to know each other:

If you have not spent time together, then this is the perfect time to get to know each other. Have open conversations, watch a movie and go out for dinner. Remember the better you get to know each other, the better the sex will be. So allow things to happen naturally and don’t focus on sex alone.

2) Don’t jump to having sex :

Just because it is your honeymoon, it does not mean you should jump into bed as soon as you reach your destination. Sex is an important part of every relationship,but it doesn’t have to be the only thing you do. Plus, your partner might not be ready for it and would like to get to know you first. So relax, talk and ease into the love making. 

3) Keep your plans flexible:

A common mistake most honeymooners make is to plan their trip with plans to do a lot of sightseeing.This usually involves tight timelines that allow you no flexibility. While you might like to plan every detail of your trip, know that there will be days when the two of you will want to simply relax and spend some alone time together.So avoid planning a trip with a planned schedule. Instead explore the region with your partner in tow and watch the romance grow.

4) Small gestures can help build a bond:

Small gestures like a hug, a peck on her cheek or even simply holding her hand every now and then can help build that bond between the two of you.Remember showing her you care can go a long way in helping her want to have sex with you. So, show affection in your own way.

5) Talk:

Your honeymoon is probably the first time you both will get to be alone with no family to interfere. So make it a point to communicate openly. This is also the time you will experience living with another person in your space.Use this time to adjust and tell your partner if something bugs you; don’t bottle it up.

6) Before sex, have a lot of foreplay:

With the nervousness of being with someone for the first time, this may also be the first time you or your partner may be having sex. So make sure you have a lot of foreplay as it will help increase lubrication (stress can affect the natural atmosphere of the vagina). 

Kiss, caress and fondle each other. To move on to penetrative sex, try stimulating your lady’s clitoris and vagina so as to increase lubrication. Most importantly make sure you and your partner are on the same page when it comes to moving to the next level in your relationship.

7) Use protection and lubricant:

Being prepared is also another essential part of having great sex during your honeymoon. Stock up on condoms and lubricant so that you can avoid any untowards outcomes of your nightly romps.To spice things up a bit try different type and flavours of condoms and lubricant.

9) Test the waters:

If you have been sexually active or have certain fantasies, this may seem like the best time to try them out. But be a little cautious while you tread those waters. While, we aren’t telling you to not be yourself while with your partner, know that she may not like or even understand what you want. So talk about it and explain what it might feel like. Only if she is ready should you go ahead.

10) Don’t judge him:

Ladies, men do suffer from performance anxiety,especially if it is their first time. So, wipe out all those pre- conceived notions about how a man should be in bed and give him some time to figure things out. He might be shy, nervous,excited or feel all these emotions, so allow him a few faux pas through the journey. Know that the first time with someone is not always great, it takes a little bit of time to get to know each other’s rhythm, likes and dislikes. So don’t expect the best sex of your life the first time around. Let it build and become an act you want to keep at for the rest of your life.

This article was originally published on www.thehealthsite.com 

 

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