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Thou shall not ask me...

Women's Day gives us a reason not only to celebrate the women in our lives but also a chance to introspect and make a change. We have compiled a list of questions that women have always had to field from different sections of society. If you have been asking these questions, it's time to stop

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March 8 is celebrated as International Women's Day across the globe, and while we take a moment to celebrate the women in our lives, we should also make the time to introspect on how we can make small changes to improve the lives of women in our society. Here are a list of questions that we should stop asking as they not only invade an individual's right to privacy but also infringe on her right to freedom of movement.

When will you get married?

Most single women would rather avoid social functions like weddings as they want to duck the volley of questions that come their way from 'well-meaning relatives, absolute strangers and ever curious neighbours. We don't know why marriage is still an obsession in our society. No one ideally has the right to intrude on someone else's privacy, no matter how good the intentions. Remember the next time you see a single, independent lady who may or may not have crossed the marriageable age in your eyes, exercise some self control and avoid asking her about her relationship status. It's not your business find another conversation starter like what she is upto instead.

Any good news?

Generally, after marriage both married and unmarried singles somehow think they have the right to ask you about your 'family plans'. This is a question for the couple involved to ask and answer. It's nobody's prerogative to highlight the fact that it's time to have a child. Remember again no matter how good your intentions are, it's not your place to decide things for someone else.

Are you trying to lose weight?

While it's okay to inquire about someone's health, probing people especially women about their weight should be a strict no no. After all, women are already under a lot of pressure to meet expectations set by society and the people around them. Her body and weight is not your problem and it should not be a question that you should ask.

Why do you have so many male friends?

Again, it's not your place to decide how many friends a woman is entitled to have. It could be a mixed group or of the opposite sex. Why she chooses to interact with someone is not your concern and no matter how many male friends are a part of her life does not give you the right to judge her.

Why does you dress the way she does?

The length of a girl's skirt or shorts is not your concern. If there are no set guidelines for how men should dress, with no one taking out a measuring tape to measure the length of his pants, there is no reason to do the same with a girl.

Why do you go out after sunset?

For those who believe that women should not go out late in the night alone for their 'own good' get rid of that perception. The idea is as ridiculous and absurd as the logic that men should not step out of the house after sunset, that way women will be protected.

 

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